On any given day, women speak about 8,000 words, while men only utter half that amount. By evening, men are left with just a few words in “reserve,” whereas women still have around 2,000-3,000 words. This explains why men often come home in silence, driving their partners “crazy.”
Even with a wife who loves him dearly, some of his habits can be quite unacceptable. However, if you look at these “peculiar” behaviors not from the angry wife’s perspective, but from that of a medical professional, you’ll find that what you don’t understand is quite simple.
Physiological differences between men and women affect how they react differently to the same situation. Consequently, there are things that can drive women to lose their composure, while men see them as completely natural.
He doesn’t say anything?
When returning home from work, sometimes your husband might not greet you at all, responding in a sluggish manner, and remaining silent until the next morning. In such cases, wives shouldn’t exhaust themselves with doubts or questions about why their husbands have nothing to say or if they no longer love them.
Psychologists have calculated that, in a day, women speak about 8,000 words, while men only manage about half of that. By evening, men are left with just a few words, while women still have around 2,000-3,000 words. This discrepancy can lead to misunderstandings. To avoid such situations, you can talk to yourself about things without needing your husband to respond.
Don’t ask for anything when he’s reading the newspaper
When he’s reading the newspaper, external stimuli like your voice have little effect. Whether you call him for dinner or ask him to answer the phone, he likely won’t hear anything until you take the newspaper away. The issue is that he simply isn’t paying attention to your requests. Neurologists confirm that the connections between the left and right hemispheres of the brain allow multitasking. Women’s brains have these connections thanks to estrogen hormones, enabling them to do things like manicure their nails while “directing” their husbands and watching television at the same time. Men, on the other hand, must first fold the newspaper before sitting down to eat. Only then can you express your complaints to him—not all at once, but one at a time, so he can remember them better.
Women often become most frustrated when their husbands, with a cold expression, refuse to engage in family social life. In reality, it’s not that simple; men can’t just switch to other issues as quickly as women can.
Work comes first
Research has shown that the majority of men prioritize work over family. In contrast, women tend to value family more. Therefore, when at home, if a husband continues to deal with important work issues, never ask him questions like which school to enroll the kids in, where to go on vacation, or whether to consider moving to a new place. For him, these concerns are trivial compared to discussing job prospects with his boss at a meeting.
He doesn’t see anything
Another “strange” aspect of men’s behavior is that a husband might complain all day about someone moving his t-shirt, while his wife can easily spot it right there in the room. Or a father might shout at his child for taking his phone somewhere, until his wife reminds him that it’s right at his feet. Yet men are quick to notice what’s happening across the street.
Ophthalmologists have determined that women are much better at looking left, right, and even behind them than men. Men tend to have better vision only in front and far away.
He never talks about love with you
Women also get frustrated because men rarely talk about love, seldom give flowers, and never initiate romantic conversations. Psychologists suggest that this behavior stems from male psychological characteristics. For them, love is expressed not through words, but through actions. Only a man who truly loves will do things like fixing things around the house or taking out the trash to help the woman he loves. If your husband does all these things, don’t doubt it: he loves you.
Knowing all this, you might think that women are more organized than men. However, be careful not to be too proud. The strong must be tolerant of the weaknesses of those they love.
