Scientists advise women to appreciate their partners if they exhibit traits such as: intelligence, a sense of humor, support for their girlfriend’s career, and a close relationship with her family.
How Scientists Guide Women in Choosing Their Ideal Partner
Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, and what may be an ideal man for one woman might not be the same for another.
However, there are signs that can help women determine whether their choice is right or wrong. These signs are based on scientific research.
1. An Intelligent Man
An intelligent man easily creates lasting relationships around him.
Having a loyal partner is undoubtedly one of the most desired goals for anyone in a long-term relationship. A 2018 study by Finnish scientists found that the more intelligent a man is, the more likely he is to be faithful.
The research indicates that intelligent men are more successful in their careers, easily attract potential partners, and know how to balance family life, understanding the sustainable values of marriage and maintaining them.
Moreover, an intelligent man will also know how to handle social situations well, easily creating lasting relationships around him.
2. A Man with a Sense of Humor
A sense of humor is an important factor in romantic relationships. No one wants to be with someone who is always serious or constantly complaining.
In a study published in Sciencedirect, American psychologists noted that both men and women with a sense of humor have a special sexual appeal. Perhaps this is because humor is a way to express intelligence, creativity, and “good gene” traits.
Humorous men also tend to attract women and are more likely to have better marriages.
3. A Man Who Actively Supports His Girlfriend’s Career
A study in the U.S. indicated that husbands or boyfriends are a factor influencing two-thirds of women’s decisions to leave their jobs, often because they feel it is their duty to raise children and support their partner.
In modern society, women increasingly prioritize their careers. Alongside this, they also wish to maintain a stable family and raise children well. Therefore, scientists advise women that if their husband or boyfriend shares household responsibilities, wholeheartedly supports their career, and rejoices in their successes, then he is a good man worth appreciating.
4. A Man with Good Relationships with His Friends and Family
A long-lasting happy relationship is not about how well two people “match” but about how much they can reduce their egos and strive to harmonize with each other – (Image: LOVE CONNECTION).
It’s not surprising that we often see many women “forgetting” their family and friends when they fall in love.
When they devote all their time and affection to their boyfriends, women often lose touch with other relationships. Over time, they not only lose connection with friends and family but also become dependent on their boyfriend’s affection.
However, this is less common among men. A recent study from the UK found that modern men often value and appreciate women who know how to balance their relationships.
They also strive to maintain good relationships with their friends and families, both their own and their girlfriend’s.
Therefore, women should ensure that they are with a man who not only wants them to spend time with him but also encourages them to meet their friends.
5. A Man Who Can Control His Emotions
Every romantic relationship will inevitably face moments of conflict and arguments. Anyone who is angry can lose control, say hurtful things, or even resort to violence.
A good man knows how to calm conflicts. This not only shows that he is intelligent in handling situations but also that he respects his partner’s opinions and listens to what she says, demonstrating that he truly values the relationship.
If a man always believes he is right and never considers his partner’s words, fails to control his actions during arguments, but later apologizes with excuses, that is not a good sign.
Moreover, a long-lasting happy relationship is not about how well two people “match” but about how much they can reduce their egos and strive to harmonize with each other.
If a man insists on finding someone who fits him without being willing to change for his partner, that is also not a good choice.
6. A Man Who Shares Similar Aspirations and Interests
Not all couples share the same views on interests and life goals. Those who share similar interests and life perspectives tend to bond and attract each other more easily, but the key to maintaining a relationship lies in mutual sharing.
A 2016 study from the U.S. found that two people who regularly share interests and life perspectives, even if they do not have similar traits, are more likely to respect each other.
