Myka Meier, an expert in etiquette and the founder of The Plaza Hotel’s Finishing Program in 2017, has extensive experience teaching modern manners.
She is particularly knowledgeable about the rules in luxury hotels. In her courses, she has pointed out many common mistakes that most people make when staying at hotels. Below are Myka Meier’s recommendations:
1. Clean Up Before Check-Out
Do you usually tidy up before checking out of a hotel? If the answer is no, you may cause a lot of inconvenience for the hotel staff. Moreover, leaving dirty towels piled next to the door mat or bed is also discouraged.
In an interview with Travel + Leisure, Meier advises: “Please tidy up a bit before you leave. Hang used towels on hooks or neatly place them in the bathroom, rather than throwing them on the carpet as it may wet the carpet.”
Additionally, if you order room service, do not leave dishes or trays outside in the hallway after you have finished eating (unless the hotel allows this). Meier shares: “This is truly unhygienic and unattractive for other guests, plus it can pose a danger for those walking in the hallway. After your meal, you should call the hotel service department to inform them that you have finished eating and the utensils can be collected.”
2. Do Not Take Hotel Items
You should not take items that do not belong to you in a hotel, such as bathrobes or decorative pieces. Meier notes: “I have never encountered such guests, but I often hear stories about guests who take items like bathrobes, decorations, or even salt and pepper shakers from the hotel restaurant.” This is something that polite guests would never do.
You can still take some items like shampoo, conditioner, skin cream, or coffee, as they are provided for free.
3. Avoid Wearing Inappropriate Attire in Public Areas
While staying at a hotel, Meier often sees guests wearing swimwear in common areas like the hotel lobby. However, this is not an appropriate setting for such outfits. If you plan to swim or visit the spa, bring a large robe to cover up when passing through the lobby.
4. Be Polite to Hotel Staff
Don’t forget to treat hotel staff with respect.
Perhaps the simplest rule to remember is to be patient with hotel guides or front desk staff. Meier often shares with her students: “Guests should know that the nicer and more polite they are to staff, the more willing staff will be to help them. And don’t forget to thank them.”
Meier understands and empathizes with hotel staff, as many work long hours, overnight, or even on weekends. She says: “Working in hotel service is one of the most challenging jobs. Therefore, show respect and politeness to hotel staff, from those serving at the pool or restaurant to hotel managers.”
